Common Myth #1: Things have been this way for so long, I can't do anything about these problems now.
THE TRUTH: I can change, and our relationship can change no matter how long these problems have been going on.
Common Myth #2: I don't like the way I'm feeling, but I can't help it. I feel the way I feel, and I just have to accept it.
THE TRUTH: Who controls the way you feel? You, and only you!! If you don't like the way you're feeling, make a change. Change your thoughts, change your actions, change your attitude. Just never forget that you can change!