I asked a few of my friends recently if they had any marriage advice they would be willing to share (so that I can share it with you). I got some really great stuff, and I will be sharing it in the next few posts.
First, a word about giving advice (from Tamara): "I think giving marriage advice to most newlyweds is a
little like giving an umbrella to a teenager on a sunny morning and saying,
'Take this with you. I know it doesn't look like it, but you really will need
this...'"
And another quote from a friend: "Choose your love. Love your choice." This sums it
up for me. I like it because it fits with the idea that love is a verb (most
days.) Also to go with it, but less succinctly, "To stay married: act in
loving ways even when you do not have loving feelings."
Good stuff, huh? Thanks to my amazing friends for sharing their wisdom. Much more to come...
I love Tamara's quote about the umbrella. Truer words were never spoken! Ha!
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