Praying Together

Our Stake President (church leader) recently said that he has never had a couple that is praying together every day come to him saying that they want a divorce.  He advised everyone in the congregation to pray together every day as a couple to ensure the happiness and well-being of your marriage.  He stated that the prayer you say together as a couple should be different from other prayers because this prayer between the two of you should focus on your relationship and your spouse.  Take turns saying the prayer aloud, and when it is your turn, thank Heavenly Father for your spouse.  Thank Him for all the good things you love and appreciate about your spouse.  Ask Him to bless your spouse when needed.  It is a special prayer of gratitude for each other and your relationship.  This prayer helps you to express love and appreciation for each other, and to see each other from a more eternal, meaningful viewpoint.  As a counselor, I agree 100% that praying together as a couple every day will strengthen and protect your relationship.  It will give you an eternal perspective that can sometimes otherwise be lacking.  It will help you to remember why you love your spouse, and will remind you of all the positive things about your relationship.  When you are faced with difficulties and trials, it will give you a sense of unity and purpose.  When life is smooth sailing, it will give you a deeper sense of love and gratitude for each other.  Praying together will help to keep your relationship strong and healthy.  If you're not already in the habit, start today.  You will notice a difference in the quality of your marriage, and probably a positive difference in your feelings towards your spouse too.