Prayer

Thanks to Tamara who mentioned this quote in one of her comments.  I love it...

"Pray for the love which allows you to see the good in your companion. Pray for the love that makes weaknesses and mistakes seem small. Pray for the love to make your companion’s joy your own. Pray for the love to want to lessen the load and soften the sorrows of your companion."     ~ Henry B. Eyring

Sometimes it is hard to remember to pray for our marriage and our spouse, but it can make a big difference.  I think a huge problem is when a person no longer wants to pray for their marriage or their spouse.  Feelings of anger, hurt, and betrayal can make us feel that way sometimes.  We must remember that when we feel like we don't want to pray is when we need to pray the most.  If you have no desire to pray for your marriage, then why not start there?  Pray for help.  Pray for the desire to want to work on your marriage and make things better.  I know from experience that prayer can accomplish miracles.  Prayer can soften hard hearts and help us to love, forgive, trust, and be happy.